Tuesday, February 10, 2009

What A MeMe

OMGossssh!!! I have to talk about me. My least favorite subject. I am a little embarrassed to say the least. Okay so I don't play by the rules, I usually create them as I go or what is most convenient to me so for those who have tagged me here, there, and over yonder ..here ya go, all you blogger friends of mine. I do adore you all. Oh, gos here I go (kicking at the ground) Yep, another foot shot for you guys.(I will make it my last I know it is getting old) My favorite White tennis shoes, Favorite team New Orleans Saints. Oh, yeah you can bet there are white socks inside them there shoes. Things about me you might not know or really don't want to know and may not care to know but if you keep reading you are gonna know in detail!

1. I count my blessings for My family they are most important too me, if I call you my friend and you have met my family you are then consider family - bottom line and my family treats you like family.

2. I will fight for what I believe in/for my family/for a child/any situation that if I just acted I could or would make a difference -even if that fight would take my life -then so be it.

3. If I give you my word You can take it to the Bank! It's as good as gold!

4. I have No patience what so ever in traffic for stupid people-esp phone users- texting-people reading a book or the newspaper PLEASE!- I have an issue with patience period I think and I should seek help. NO really I should!

5. I also have a very short fuse! Natural Redhead takes some poking to get me, but when it blows it blows then I am done with it and look around and clean up the aftermath. See I think I could use that counseling...LOL
(just breathe)
6. I lost 6 of my Very best friends in 13 months 1st one who was living with me got killed on his motorcycle on Valentines Day, they all past away due to different causes then -in the 14th month I lost my dog of 6 years I don't know why Boo died I went to work he was fine. *Myne number One friend is Derfina she has been there for me for 34 years now... I know ! that is so Wonderful isn't it :-) she makes my heart smile and sing all the time.*
(deep breath - just breathe) that is always so hard for me to mention the loss of such wonderful friends

7. I will beat a dead horse to death, only to revive it to beat it to death again...translation
I Never give Up - There will be "No White Flag" here! (dido great song)

8. I will trust and keep trusting till the finale straw is broken (it takes a lot a real lot). Then I turn off the faucet and it doesn't even drip. - translation - ( I will keep turning my cheek, keep taking your hits, but watch out when I am done I am DONE! (that is totally different from never giving up, it comes to the point of choosing Not to be totally Stupid-anymore)

9. I Love, Love, LOVE music I have to have it. I can keep the same cd in my car - well Duffy has been there since - Derfina and I were running the roads before Turkey Day it now Feb. Humm

10. I am a lot deeper than a lot of people give me credit for but that's how deep I am that I know this-LOL but a lot of times I just keep my mouth shut...I know, I do..really "sometimes"*smirk*

11. I have an enlighten side of me - some things I just know and then others are in shock when there is proof (it still amazes me too, actually it scares the crap out of others...LOL)

12. I was the kid in school everybody picked on and humiliated all the time. Who didn't have any friends in school till Derfina rescued me in 10th grade. Could be the reason I didn't go everyday (yes I probably should have got counseling...but hey I didn't feel the need to go get guns and blow them all away like the punks use as an excuse today...I just knew one day they'd like me...maybe...see #7 But, it didn't kill me just made me tougher! I even manage to graduate too!

13. It is hard to let people get too close to me...see # 6 (and maybe a lil 12 in there)I still haven't recovered from losing them, don't think I ever will, time doesn't make it better, just makes it eternally longer without them!

14. I try not to complain too much about my pain because I know there are others out there so much more worse off than I am. But folks I do have several issues I deal with, I try to keep a smile on my face and a song in my heart, when I know I can't I will disappear and chill out for awhile. Vegg Out,Lay Low, sofa surf, tater bake, be one with myself.

15. I do Bitch a lot but that is totally different from complaining

16. I do not use heat regardless what temperature it should get "down" to. I carry my own
insulation I do not need it. But my dog she has her own heated lil bed area she'll never be cold.

17. I run 2 to 3 fans all the time, all year long in my house, the big noise maker for sleeping (you
know the ole box fan from the 60's just the new version)

18. I don't like heights will not go past the 4 step on the ladder...I know I will fall... I fall just trying to walk... I don't need to poke the ladder fairies!

19. I don't like to fly see #18 again

20. This is frigging hard, I don't know too much about myself, there is still a lot of undiscovered territory. I don't like small spaces or closets I have been shoved in a closet before-no fun!

21. I don't have kids but I treat all kids as my own babies (I've raised many)
22. I live in my parents back yard in a shed, and I am so blessed to be able to be here :-)
23. I am a mama's girl still, see#22 and I have no problem admitting that! So blessed am I.

24. I still grieve for what hurricane Katrina did to my beloved coast and the horrible human factor in New Orleans! It's been 3 years and people still are homeless and we still have no homes being built!!! *and our Mayor is up for Katrina fraud yea*

25. I write, read and talk backwards all the time so everything requires a lot of effort, to make it turn out almost audible - English

26. a bonus...after going back and reading about myself I feel I need to add. I am a very Happy Go Lucky person. The negatives above have only made me stronger and who I am where I came from Everybody has a story. I studied Psych in college - I am okay, you are okay, we are all *mostly* okay!
yep that about sums me up! tag your it now!!
Okay there are the first 25 things w/bonus I can come up with and I would like to add... I am so happy and thankful to Derfina for introducing me to blogosphere wonder land... it fills in a lot of my alone time. I enjoy peeking into to everybody else's worlds too. You have ALL brought such joy and laughter to me and some of you have taught me so much.I also just love the fact people come by to say hi to me too. That really makes my day. So thank you all who have taken the time to read a little bit about me and writing comments back. I appreciate you spending your time with me.

Special Shout out to my new followers Tabitha & Kelli, Welcome!!
Special thanks to the peeps below :-))

Geaux Get Your Read On!


derfina said...

*smooches* to you, my love! Remember-I am carved in stone for V-day!

darsden said...

derfina I will do my best to be there :-) when them hockey games gonna be over woman?

Southern Bombshell said...

Have you ever heard the Louisiana song by Willie Nelson? It puts me in tears every time I hear it. The title kind of gives away the theme of the song. I am also 150% with you on not flying. I am a firm believer that people do not belong up in the air in a metal tube!

darsden said...

Hey Southern yes, I have heard that song. I am a big Willie Fan. Getting close to your big move girl are you excited?

Reddirt Woman said...

Okay, Dar... now I'm feeling like I need to do 100 things post... maybe I can do it in bits and parts like you. Twenty five here and there might not be too bad. You are inspiring me. 100 things just seems so overwhelming...

I love that you are able to share yourself with us. I'll have to re-read and contemplate before I make any specific remarks... :-)

I do have a question, though. How in hell do you keep your tennies so white? Do you only wear them in the house? I put on my white tennies when they are new and they stay white about 12 minutes...


darsden said...

I am really not as bad negative...lol I am really a happy person. Don't know why the first 25 came out so heavy.

Those are my NO Saints only wear on pretty days and when I am not playing in the yard. I keep my whities white. Goes for all 200 white t shirts and socks...uhmmm yeah that's how I roll